I cannot believe how many strong men I have met who have moved to my country in search of a better life. The question I am forced to ask myself is ‘have they found it?’ My friend David Erasmus (www.daviderasmus.com) keeps telling me how important it is to tell stories. But there are so many stories in South Africa that I am intimidated an unsure where to start. Many of us feel despondent as the strong French accented refugee glares across the parking lot at us- as we hurry into our cars to avoid tipping him.
I am not despondent because he is there, but rather because in most cases he is over qualified and underutilised as a parking guard.
My friend Gisele and I always manage to get each others blood pumping for change…
‘The other night after we went dancing in Long street we met a tall dark and puffy eyed man. He had been guarding our car as we danced our cares away… Sadly his cares could not be danced away like ours. If you have no home and work all night, where do you sleep? Any way, I can’t remember his name but his kind face is so clear in my memory. I asked what he had done before he left the DRC; “I am an artist, I work with oil on canvas- but its too expensive here and I send most of my money home” he answered.
I thought about my abandoned paint box and uncoloured canvasses and was ashamed that my neglected hobby was too expensive for a strong man, twice my age and twice my size.
How frustrating it must be. An artist without canvass and paint, a father without children and a husband without a wife. A son without a mother. When you leave your family for the hope of South Africa, you leave everything. Sadly so many have left everything in search of something and have found nothing. How can you go home empty handed? How can you get home without a pay cheque? How can you survive in a country that is not your home and is not the land of milk and honey you expected?
Gisele and I started to think about our role in solving this problem… We chatted late into the night about the power of information and the power of networking. We found only two organisations that provide refugees with information and both had lost steam after the xenophobia had calmed down… Who will tell these men and woman their rights? Who will show them the way to be part of the South African economy? Perhaps we will.



